Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
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There was a Greek philosopher who taught that, of all things, not to have been born is the sweetest state. But I believe sleep is the sweetest state. You're dead, yet alive. There's no sensation so exquisite.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote contrasts the Greek philosopher's view on non-existence with the author's appreciation for the dreamlike state of sleep.
Joyce Carol Oates reflects on the nature of existence and non-existence. While a Greek philosopher teaches that not being born is the ideal, Oates posits that sleep, which shares the quality of detachment from reality, offers a sweet escape from the burdens of life. She finds beauty in sleep, describing it as a state where one is neither fully alive nor dead, allowing for a blissful experience that transcends ordinary sensations.
Themes
ExistenceSleepDeathPhilosophySensations
In practice
Example use cases
In a literature class discussing existential themes, this quote can illustrate different perceptions of existence.
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