Love is - OK, it's 20 things, but it isn't 19. And I think that love reaches for something which is very, very deep in us and is very easily obscured, and is also very easily denied, which is the instinct towards the other person, other than toward the self.
Dying is not romantic, and death is not a game which will soon be over... Death is not anything... death is not... It's the absence of presence, nothing more... the endless time of never coming back... a gap you can't see, and when the wind blows through it, it makes not sound.
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This quote reflects on the nature of death as the absence of life, emphasizing its somber reality rather than any romantic notions.
Tom Stoppard, in this poignant reflection on death, challenges the romanticized views often associated with it. He presents death as a profound absence—a void that signifies the end of presence and connection, illustrating the deep and silent nature of loss that cannot be perceived or filled. The inevitable reality of death is depicted as a stark and unembellished truth, devoid of any embellishments that society typically attributes to it.
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During a speech on the importance of appreciating life, one might quote this to express the gravity of mortality.
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