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Speaking is half his that speaks, and half his that hears.
Michel De Montaigne
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Effective communication involves both the speaker and the listener, emphasizing their shared responsibility in the interaction.

This quote by Michel De Montaigne highlights the collaborative nature of communication. It suggests that speaking is not solely the duty of the one who talks but is equally dependent on the one who listens. The effectiveness of a conversation relies on the engagement and understanding of both parties, asserting that the listener's interpretation and feedback are as crucial as the speaker's message.

Themes

CommunicationListenerSpeakerUnderstandingEngagement

In practice

Example use cases

In a workshop on effective communication, one might use this quote to emphasize active listening to participants.

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