If you take a deep breath and look around, 'Look what's happening to me!' can become 'Look what's happening!' And what's happening? The incredible drama of life is happening. And we're in it!
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Heir to your own karma doesn't mean 'You get what you deserve.' I think it means 'You get what you get.' Bad things happen to good people. My happiness depending on my action means, to me, that it depends on my action of choosing compassion--for myself as well as for everyone else--rather than contention. [p.61]
Interpretation
What this quote means
Happiness is rooted in personal choices and compassion rather than an expectation of fairness in life.
This quote emphasizes that life is unpredictable and that bad things can happen to good people without any apparent reason. It suggests that true happiness stems from personal actions and choices, specifically the decision to cultivate compassion for oneself and others, rather than seeking contention or holding onto grievances.
Themes
KarmaHappinessCompassionChoiceContention
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about resilience during tough times.
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