The home is the centre and circumference, the start and the finish, of most of our lives.
Charlotte Perkins GilmanRead
A house does not need a wife any more than it needs a husband.
Interpretation
This quote suggests that a home does not require a specific gender role to define its completeness or function.
Charlotte Perkins Gilman's quote emphasizes the idea that both a house and a household can operate independently of traditional gender roles. It implies that a home is not solely defined by the presence of a wife or husband, but rather by the relationships and dynamics that exist within it, advocating for a more egalitarian approach to domestic life.
In practice
In a talk about gender equality in household roles, this quote can illustrate that both partners are equally significant.
The home is the centre and circumference, the start and the finish, of most of our lives.
To swallow and follow, whether old doctrine or new propaganda, is a weakness still dominating the human mind.
Woman" in the abstract is young, and, we assume, charming. As they get older they pass off the stage, somehow, into private ownership mostly, or out of it altogether.
We all need one another; much and often. Just as every human creature needs a place to be alone in, a sacred, private "home" of his own, so all human creatures need a place to be together in, from the two who can show each other their souls uninterruptedly, to the largest throng that can throb and stir in unison.
Death is the essential condition of life, not an evil.
When the mother of the race is free, we shall have a better world, by the easy right of birth and by the calm, slow, friendly forces of evolution.
The baby explodes into an unknown world that is only knowable through some kind of a story – of course that is how we all live, it’s the narrative of our lives, but adoption drops you into the story after it has started. It’s like reading a book with the first few pages missing. It’s like arriving after curtain up. The feeling that something is missing never, ever leaves you – and it can’t, and it shouldn’t, because something is missing.
Look around. And don't get close to people who make you suffer.
Dogs live with man as courtiers 'round a monarch, steeped in the flattery of his notice ... to push their favor in this world of pickings and caresses is, perhaps, the business of their lives.
This last night we tear into each other, as if to wound, as if to find the key to everything before morning.
People in general would rather die than forgive. It's THAT hard. If God said in plain language. "I'm giving you a choice, forgive or die," a lot of people would go ahead and order their coffin.
I do atypical work for a white person, which is that I lead primarily white audiences in discussions on race every day, in workshops all over the country. That has allowed me to observe very predictable patterns. And one of those patterns is this inability to tolerate any kind of challenge to our racial reality.
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