The home is the centre and circumference, the start and the finish, of most of our lives.
Charlotte Perkins GilmanRead
A house does not need a wife any more than it needs a husband.
Interpretation
This quote suggests that a home does not require a specific gender role to define its completeness or function.
Charlotte Perkins Gilman's quote emphasizes the idea that both a house and a household can operate independently of traditional gender roles. It implies that a home is not solely defined by the presence of a wife or husband, but rather by the relationships and dynamics that exist within it, advocating for a more egalitarian approach to domestic life.
In practice
In a talk about gender equality in household roles, this quote can illustrate that both partners are equally significant.
The home is the centre and circumference, the start and the finish, of most of our lives.
To swallow and follow, whether old doctrine or new propaganda, is a weakness still dominating the human mind.
Woman" in the abstract is young, and, we assume, charming. As they get older they pass off the stage, somehow, into private ownership mostly, or out of it altogether.
We all need one another; much and often. Just as every human creature needs a place to be alone in, a sacred, private "home" of his own, so all human creatures need a place to be together in, from the two who can show each other their souls uninterruptedly, to the largest throng that can throb and stir in unison.
Death is the essential condition of life, not an evil.
When the mother of the race is free, we shall have a better world, by the easy right of birth and by the calm, slow, friendly forces of evolution.
Every now and then she looked around for tangible evidence of his having ever been there. Where were the butterflies? the blueberries? the whistling reed? She could find nothing, for he had left nothing but his stunning absence.
What do you say? There really are no words for that. There really aren't. Somebody tries to say, 'I'm sorry, I'm so sorry.' People say that to me. There's no language for it. Sorry doesn't do it. I think you should just hug people and mop their floor or something.
If you're a woman, it's almost impossible to establish a relationship. You're too much for everybody. It's too much. The woman always has to play this role of being fragile and dependent. And if you're not, they're fascinated by you, but only for a little while. And then they want to change you and crush you. And then they leave.
Think of two people, living together day after day, year after year, in this small space, standing elbow to elbow cooking at the same small stove, squeezing past each other on the narrow stairs, shaving in front of the same small bathroom mirror, constantly jogging, jostling, bumping against each otherβs bodies by mistake or on purpose, sensually, aggressively, awkwardly, impatiently, in rage or in love β think what deep though invisible tracks they must leave, everywhere, behind them!
It should be our endeavor to cultivate the peace and friendship of every nation . . . . Our interest will be to throw open the doors of commerce, and to knock off all its shackles, giving perfect freedom to all persons for the vent to whatever they may choose to bring into our ports, and asking the same in theirs.
Children show scars like medals. Lovers use them as secrets to reveal. A scar is what happens when the word is made flesh.
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