Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Joyce BrothersRead
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
Interpretation
Genuine listening is a form of respect and admiration that surpasses merely mimicking someone.
This quote emphasizes the importance of truly listening to others as a deeper form of appreciation than imitation. Unlike mere mimicry, which can be seen as insincere, active listening shows genuine interest and respect for the speaker, highlighting the value of understanding and engaging with their ideas and feelings.
In practice
In a workshop on effective communication, this quote could be used to highlight the importance of listening skills.
Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
If a child is given love, he becomes loving ... If he's helped when he needs help, he becomes helpful. And if he has been truly valued at home ... he grows up secure enough to look beyond himself to the welfare of others.
Don't always try to be popular. It isn't possible for everyone to like you. It's far more important for you to like yourself. And when you respect yourself, strangely, you get more respect than when you court it from others.
Feeling gratitude isn't born in us-it's something we are taught, and in turn, we teach our children.
Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.
I have emerged from the tunnel of grief into the light. Life is better. Not the same, but good and getting better all the time.
One of life's terrible truths is that women like guys who seem to know what they're doing.
Sometimes the greatest deterrent to a great marriage is believing you have a perfect marriage.
I'm nobody's daughter now. I'm through with that.
But maybe a man was nothing but a man, which is what Baby Suggs always said. They encouraged you to put some of your weight in their hands and soon as you felt how light and lovely that was, they studied your scars and tribulations, after which they did what he had done: ran her children out and tore up the house. [...] A man ain't nothing but a man,' said Baby Suggs. 'But a son? Well now, that's somebody.
I tried to be a good wife, but I was lost in my gilded cage.
In the ensuing silence, I have time to contemplate the word cuteβ how dismissive it is, how itβs the equivalent of calling someone little, how it makes a person into a baby, how the word is a neon sign burning through the dark reading, βFeel Bad About Yourself.
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