Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Joyce BrothersRead
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
Interpretation
Genuine listening is a form of respect and admiration that surpasses merely mimicking someone.
This quote emphasizes the importance of truly listening to others as a deeper form of appreciation than imitation. Unlike mere mimicry, which can be seen as insincere, active listening shows genuine interest and respect for the speaker, highlighting the value of understanding and engaging with their ideas and feelings.
In practice
In a workshop on effective communication, this quote could be used to highlight the importance of listening skills.
Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
If a child is given love, he becomes loving ... If he's helped when he needs help, he becomes helpful. And if he has been truly valued at home ... he grows up secure enough to look beyond himself to the welfare of others.
Don't always try to be popular. It isn't possible for everyone to like you. It's far more important for you to like yourself. And when you respect yourself, strangely, you get more respect than when you court it from others.
Feeling gratitude isn't born in us-it's something we are taught, and in turn, we teach our children.
Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.
I have emerged from the tunnel of grief into the light. Life is better. Not the same, but good and getting better all the time.
He that takes a wife, takes care
It is an important distinction to note that she looked not only as if she had taken good care of herself, but that she had good reason to have done so. (...) She looked to be in such total possession of her life that only the most confident men could continue to look at her if she looked back at them. Even in bus stations, she was a woman who was stared at only until she looked back.
For listening to the stories of others ... is a kind of water that breaks the fever of our isolation. If we listen closely enough, we are soothed into remembering our common name.
I had learned that there were substitutes for a mother who couldn't be a mother. You could find love with other people. You could find it in places you weren't even looking. But the original wound would never heal. I would carry it with me forever, and so would Tara. That was the trick . . . accepting it, going on with your life, knowing it was part of you.
It seems essential, in relationships and all tasks, that we concentrate only on what is most significant and important.
With all my fans I got a family again.
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