Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Joyce BrothersRead
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
Interpretation
Genuine listening is a form of respect and admiration that surpasses merely mimicking someone.
This quote emphasizes the importance of truly listening to others as a deeper form of appreciation than imitation. Unlike mere mimicry, which can be seen as insincere, active listening shows genuine interest and respect for the speaker, highlighting the value of understanding and engaging with their ideas and feelings.
In practice
In a workshop on effective communication, this quote could be used to highlight the importance of listening skills.
Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
If a child is given love, he becomes loving ... If he's helped when he needs help, he becomes helpful. And if he has been truly valued at home ... he grows up secure enough to look beyond himself to the welfare of others.
Don't always try to be popular. It isn't possible for everyone to like you. It's far more important for you to like yourself. And when you respect yourself, strangely, you get more respect than when you court it from others.
Feeling gratitude isn't born in us-it's something we are taught, and in turn, we teach our children.
Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.
I have emerged from the tunnel of grief into the light. Life is better. Not the same, but good and getting better all the time.
The life of many a person could probably be changed if only someone would make him feel important.
Daddy felt that this country was hopeless in its treatment of Negroes. So he became a refugee from America. He bought a house in Polanco, a suburb of Mexico City, and we were planning to move there when he died. I was fourteen at the time.
It sometimes makes people feel better about themselves, you know, to put other people down, or make fun of them, or maybe make mockery of their work and that doesn't make me feel good at all.
The same chemicals were used in the cooking as were used on the composition of her own being: only those which caused the most violent reaction, contradiction, and teasing, the refusal to answer questions but the love of putting them, and all the strong spices of human relationship which bore a relation to black pepper, paprika, soybean sauce, ketchup and red peppers.
She had certain thoughts which were like companions, ideas which were like older and wiser friends.
He insists on a version of you that is funnier, stranger, more eccentric and prfound thatn you suspect yourself to be--capable of doing more good and more harm in the world than you've ever imagined--it is all but impossible not to believe, at least in his presence and a while after you've left him, that he alone sees through your essence, weighs your true qualities . . . and appreciates you more fully than anyone else ever has.
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