Once you have established yourself as a center of love and kindness radiating throughout your being, which amounts to a cradling of yourself in loving kindness and acceptance, you can dwell here indefinitely, drinking at this fount, bathing it in, renewing yourself, nourishing yourself, enlivening yourself. This can be a profoundly healing practice for body and soul.
Initiate giving. Don't wait for someone to ask. See what happens - especially to you. You may find that you gain a greater clarity about yourself and about your relationships, as well as more energy rather than less. You may find that, rather than exhausting yourself or your resources, you will replenish them. Such is the power of mindful, selfless generosity. At the deepest level, there is no giver, no gift, and no recipient . . . only the universe rearranging itself.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the transformative power of giving selflessly, suggesting that it enhances one's self-awareness and energy.
This quote by Jon Kabat-Zinn highlights the profound impact of selfless generosity on both the giver and the receiver. It suggests that initiating acts of giving without waiting for requests can lead to greater understanding of oneself and one's relationships. By engaging in mindful giving, individuals may discover that they not only enhance their own well-being but also experience a sense of replenishment rather than depletion. The quote ultimately conveys a philosophical perspective that transcends the typical dynamics of giving and receiving, proposing that these distinctions dissolve into a unified experience within the universe.
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Example use cases
In a speech about community service, you could emphasize the importance of giving without waiting for recognition.
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Practice sharing the fullness of your being, your best self, your enthusiasm, your vitality, your spirit, your trust, your openness, above all, your presence. Share it with yourself, with your family, with the world.
The best way to capture moments is to pay attention. This is how we cultivate mindfulness. Mindfulness means being awake. It means knowing what you are doing.
In Asian languages, the word for mind and the word for heart are same. So if you’re not hearing mindfulness in some deep way as heartfulness, you’re not really understanding it. Compassion and kindness towards oneself are intrinsically woven into it. You could think of mindfulness as wise and affectionate attention.
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