Almost nobody believes anymore that infants are insensate blobs. It seems both mad and evil to deny experience and feeling to a laughing, gurgling creature.
We benefit, intellectually and personally, from the interplay between different selves, from the balance between long-term contemplation and short-term impulse. We should be wary about tipping the scales too far. The community of selves shouldn't be a democracy, but it shouldn't be a dictatorship, either.
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The quote emphasizes the importance of balancing different aspects of our personality and decision-making processes.
Paul Bloom suggests that individuals possess multiple 'selves' or aspects of their personality which can interact productively when they are in balance. Focusing too much on long-term contemplation can lead to paralysis, while giving in to short-term impulses can result in reckless decisions. Therefore, it's essential to find a harmonious interplay between these tendencies, ensuring that neither dominates our decision-making process and that we maintain a healthy direction in our lives.
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