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"I've learned what's funny verbally ain't so funny on e-mail: They don't hear your intonations. Melissa broke up with somebody over that. She tried to tell him: "That was a joke!" But he just didn't get it. Mick Jagger said, "F- 'em if they don't get the joke." And I love him. That comes with age: Knowing it's their problem, not mine."
Joan Rivers
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote highlights the difficulty of conveying humor through text-based communication and the importance of understanding the perspectives of others.

Joan Rivers reflects on the challenges of expressing humor in written form, particularly in emails where tone and intonation can be easily misinterpreted. She shares a personal anecdote about a friend who faced a misunderstanding due to this lack of verbal cues, emphasizing that not everyone may appreciate a joke. The quote also signals a level of maturity that comes with understanding that miscommunications are often a reflection of the other person’s perspective, not a personal failing.

Themes

HumorCommunicationMisunderstandingIntotationAging

In practice

Example use cases

In a comedy routine discussing the pitfalls of online communication.

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