Know what we did, Lucy? You and me? We spent our whole lives yearning. Isn't that the God damndest thing?
Richard YatesRead
...his job was the very least important part of his life, never to be mentioned except in irony.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that one's job should not define their life or identity.
Richard Yates emphasizes the idea that a person's occupation should be a minor aspect of their existence, highlighting that true fulfillment comes from sources beyond work. He hints at the absurdity of allowing one's job to overshadow personal values, passions, and relationships, encouraging a more ironic and critical perspective on societal expectations regarding work.
Themes
WorkLifeIdentityIronyPriorities
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about work-life balance, one might use this quote to emphasize personal priorities.
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She just happened to feel like it. Wasn’t that after all, the only reason there was? Had she ever had a less selfish, more complicated reason for doing anything in her life?
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