My children cause me the most exquisite suffering of which I have any experience. It is the suffering of ambivalence: the murderous alternation between bitter resentment and raw-edged nerves, and blissful gratification and tenderness. Sometimes I seem to myself, in my feelings toward these tiny guiltless beings, a monster of selfishness and intolerance.
We may feel bitterly how little our poems can do in the face of seemingly out-of-control technological power and seemingly limitless corporate greed, yet it has always been true that poetry can break isolation, show us to ourselves when we are outlawed or made invisible, remind us of beauty where no beauty seems possible, remind us of kinship where all is represented as separation.
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What this quote means
Poetry serves as a powerful medium to connect us and express our humanity, despite overwhelming challenges.
In this quote, Adrienne Rich emphasizes the profound role of poetry in navigating the complexities of modern existence, particularly in the face of technological dominance and corporate greed. She asserts that while poetry may appear insignificant against these vast forces, it possesses the unique ability to foster connection, reflection, and a sense of beauty and kinship, even in isolation and adversity. Through poetry, we can reclaim our humanity and find solace amidst overwhelming societal pressures.
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Citing this quote in a poetry reading to highlight the power of words in challenging times.
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