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I saw men whom thirty years had changed but slightly; but their wives had grown old. These were good women; it is very wearing to be good.
Mark Twain
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote highlights the toll that time and caregiving can take on women in relationships, often contrasting with their partners' relatively unchanged appearance.

Mark Twain reflects on the passage of time and its effects on personal relationships, particularly emphasizing how the burden of goodness and care can visibly age women more than men. The quote reveals a deeper commentary on gender roles and the societal expectations placed on women, suggesting that while men may retain their youthfulness, the emotional and physical labor of being a 'good' woman significantly impacts their vitality.

Themes

TimeRelationshipsAgingWomenCaregiving

In practice

Example use cases

During a panel discussion on gender roles, this quote could illustrate the emotional labor women undertake.

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