The Sufis advise us to speak only after our words have managed to pass through three gates. At the first gate, we ask ourselves, 'Are these words true?' If so, we let them pass on; if not, back they go. At the second gate, we ask, 'Are the necessary?' At the last gate, we ask, 'Are they kind?'
When mystics use the word love, they use it very carefully - in the deeply spiritual sense, where to love is to know; to love is to act. If you really love, from the depths of your Consciousness, that love gives you a native wisdom. You perceive the needs of others intuitively and clearly, with detachment from any personal desires; and you know how to act creatively to meet those needs, dexterously surmounting any obstacle that comes in the way. Such is the immense, driving power of love.
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What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the profound and spiritual nature of love, highlighting its power to foster wisdom and intuition in understanding others' needs.
Eknath Easwaran illustrates that love, when understood in its deepest sense, transcends mere emotion and becomes a source of intuitive wisdom that guides one's actions. This kind of love is characterized by a selfless concern for the well-being of others, enabling individuals to perceive their needs with clarity and to respond creatively and effectively, unencumbered by personal desires or obstacles. Love, in this context, is portrayed as a powerful force that not only connects individuals but also enhances their ability to navigate life's challenges.
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This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of selfless love in relationships.
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