I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
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I was naturally a loner, content just to live with a woman, eat with her, sleep with her, walk down the street with her. I didn't want conversation, or to go anywhere except the racetrack or the boxing matches. I didn't understand t.v. I felt foolish paying money to go into a movie theatre and sit with other people to share their emotions. Parties sickened me. I hated the game-playing, the dirty play, the flirting, the amateur drunks, the bores.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects a preference for solitude and simple companionship over social interactions and societal norms.
In this quote, Charles Bukowski expresses his inclination towards solitude and minimalism in relationships, emphasizing a deep connection with one person rather than participating in social distractions and superficial interactions. He finds fulfillment in the simplicity of sharing life with a partner, yet feels alienated and frustrated by social gatherings and the complexities of casual relationships, preferring instead the authenticity of genuine companionship over mainstream social activities.
Themes
LonelinessCompanionshipRelationshipsSocial AnxietySimplicity
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion on introversion at a social gathering.
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