I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Martin SeligmanRead
One of the things psychologists used to say was that if you are depressed, anxious or angry, you couldn't be happy. Those were at opposite ends of a continuum. I believe that you can be suffering or have a mental illness and be happy - just not in the same moment that you're sad.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Happiness can coexist with suffering or mental illness, but not simultaneously with feelings of sadness.
This quote by Martin Seligman challenges the traditional view that happiness and feelings of depression, anxiety, or anger are mutually exclusive. It suggests that while one may face struggles with mental health, it is still possible to experience happiness in different moments, emphasizing the complexities of human emotions and the spectrum of emotional experiences we face.
Themes
HappinessMental HealthEmotionsSufferingPsychology
In practice
Example use cases
During a mental health seminar, to highlight the complexities of emotions.
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