Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
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When the people we love stop paying attention, trust begins to slip away and hurt starts seeping in.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Neglect from loved ones can erode trust and cause emotional pain.
This quote by Brené Brown highlights the emotional turmoil that arises when those we care about lose interest or attention towards us. It emphasizes the delicate nature of trust in relationships, suggesting that consistent engagement and communication are essential to maintain bonds; when they fade, feelings of hurt and disappointment can take their place.
Themes
TrustRelationshipsAttentionLoveHurt
In practice
Example use cases
In a relationship counseling session, highlighting this quote could foster discussion about communication.
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