Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Brene BrownRead
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.
Interpretation
Embracing vulnerability is key to experiencing true joy and happiness in life.
Brene Brown emphasizes the importance of living wholeheartedly, which involves being open and vulnerable. By allowing oneself to soften and embrace joy, individuals can fully experience happiness rather than holding back due to fear or societal expectations.
In practice
Using this quote in a motivational speech about the importance of embracing emotions.
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
Men walk this tightrope where any sign of weakness illicits shame, and so they're afraid to make themselves vulnerable for fear of looking weak.
I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
Vulnerability is basically uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.
I have learnt that gardens are like happiness: you cannot pursue them as an absolute thing or moment.
It isn't the great big pleasures that count the most; it's making a great deal out of the little ones--I've discovered the true secret of happiness, Daddy, and that is to live in the now. Not to be for ever regretting the past, or anticipating the future; but to get the most that you can out of this very instant.
Happiness is an expression of the soul in considered actions.
Reflect upon your present blessings of which every man has many - not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.
Happiness and suffering are states of mind, and so their main causes cannot be found outside the mind.
Too many people limit their happiness and success by assuming that taking time off from work will send a negative message to their manager and slow their career advancement.
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