Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Brene BrownRead
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.
Interpretation
Embracing vulnerability is key to experiencing true joy and happiness in life.
Brene Brown emphasizes the importance of living wholeheartedly, which involves being open and vulnerable. By allowing oneself to soften and embrace joy, individuals can fully experience happiness rather than holding back due to fear or societal expectations.
In practice
Using this quote in a motivational speech about the importance of embracing emotions.
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
Men walk this tightrope where any sign of weakness illicits shame, and so they're afraid to make themselves vulnerable for fear of looking weak.
I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
Vulnerability is basically uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.
Happiness is a state of non-contradictory joy . . . Happiness is possible only to a rational man, the man who desires nothing but rational goals,_x000D_ seeks nothing but rational values, and finds his joy in nothing but rational actions.
Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting some on yourself.
In order to be truly happy, you must live along with, and you must stand for something larger than yourself.
Flourishing goes beyond happiness, or satisfaction with life. True, people who flourish are happy. But that's not the half of it. Beyond feeling good, they're also doing good-adding value to the world.
Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat.
There are souls in this world which have the gift of finding joy everywhere and of leaving it behind them when they go.
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