Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Brene BrownRead
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
Interpretation
True emotional connection requires vulnerability and the acceptance of potential pain.
Brene Brown's quote emphasizes that our ability to form deep, genuine connections with others is directly linked to our willingness to embrace vulnerability, even at the risk of heartbreak. By acknowledging and accepting the possibility of pain, we open ourselves to authentic experiences, fostering a sense of worthiness and wholeheartedness in our relationships.
In practice
In a speech about personal growth, you might say: 'As Brene Brown wisely states, our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted.'
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Men walk this tightrope where any sign of weakness illicits shame, and so they're afraid to make themselves vulnerable for fear of looking weak.
I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.
Vulnerability is basically uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.
My brained warned me, but my heart didn't want to take its advice.
If we approach other people understanding our own value, being confident in who we are, being centered and grounded, it's actually easier for us to connect with them because we can listen more deeply and we can express ourselves more authentically without fear of being judged or not being enough.
I wholeheartedly believe that we can't organize just as women. There has to be specific messaging and an issue prioritization based on identity groups. Because when you ask a black woman what her top priority issues are versus a white woman versus a Muslim woman versus an undocumented woman, you're going to get... different answers.
Each of us must be committed to maintaining the reputation of all of us. And all of us must be committed to maintaining the reputation of each of us.
I was never honest. My father died, and I had never said to him, 'I'm gay.' I knew what I was, but I had to pretend not to be that to avoid the beatings.
No matter how much you know a human being, you don't know him enough.
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