Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Brene BrownRead
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
Interpretation
True emotional connection requires vulnerability and the acceptance of potential pain.
Brene Brown's quote emphasizes that our ability to form deep, genuine connections with others is directly linked to our willingness to embrace vulnerability, even at the risk of heartbreak. By acknowledging and accepting the possibility of pain, we open ourselves to authentic experiences, fostering a sense of worthiness and wholeheartedness in our relationships.
In practice
In a speech about personal growth, you might say: 'As Brene Brown wisely states, our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted.'
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Men walk this tightrope where any sign of weakness illicits shame, and so they're afraid to make themselves vulnerable for fear of looking weak.
I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.
Vulnerability is basically uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.
We live in a society where we may have differences, of course, but we learn to celebrate these differences.
Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.
Two aged men, that had been foes for life, Met by a grave, and wept - and in those tears They washed away the memory of their strife; Then wept again the loss of all those years.
What is faithfulness, anyway? Can you be unfaithful to your own feelings and faithful to someone else? Is it faithful to lie in bed night after night with someone you love but no longer desire while ardently dreaming of someone else?
So the opposite of addiction is not sobriety. It is human connection.
He gave everything to everybody. Except to me.
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