When people talk, they lay lines on each other, do a lot of role playing, sidestep, shilly-shally and engage in all manner of vagueness and innuendo. We do this and expect others to do it, yet at the same time we profess to long for the plain truth, for people to say what they mean, simple as that. Such hypocrisy is a human universal.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the contradiction between our desire for honesty and our tendency to communicate indirectly.
In this quote, Steven Pinker critiques the complexity and often dishonest nature of human communication. He highlights how individuals engage in indirect ways of speaking, filled with ambiguity, yet paradoxically yearn for straightforwardness and truth from others. This hypocrisy, he argues, is a shared characteristic of humanity, revealing the tension between our communication styles and our authentic desires for clarity.
In practice
During a workshop on effective communication, this quote can be used to illustrate the importance of honesty.
The foundation of individual rights is the assumption that people have wants and needs and are authorities on what those wants and needs are. If people's stated desires were just some kind of erasable inscription or reprogrammable brainwashing, any atrocity could be justified.
The linguistic clumsiness of tourists and students might be the price we pay for the linguistic genius we displayed as babies, just as the decrepitude of age in the price we pay for the vigor of youth.
If we are not to abandon values such as peace and equality, or our commitments to science and truth, then we must pry these values away from claims about our psychological makeup that are vulnerable to being proven false.
We adults protect ourselves with laws, police, workplace regulations and social norms and there is no conceivable reason why children should be left more vulnerable, other that laziness or callousness in considering what life is like from their point of view.
The idea that children are passive repositories to be shaped by their parents has been massively overstated. A child's peer group is a far greater determinant of its development and achievements than parental aspiration.
Reason is non-negotiable. Try to argue against it, or to exclude it from some realm of knowledge, and you've already lost the argument, because you're using reason to make your case. ... We don't "believe" in reason.
Jealousy is the greatest of all evils, and the one that arouses the least pity in the person who causes it.
What if I told you insane was working fifty hours a week in some office for fifty years at the end of which they tell you to p*ss off; ending up in some retirement village hoping to die before suffering the indignity of trying to make it to the toilet on time? Wouldn't you consider that to be insane?
[I]t is truth alone-scientific, established, proved, and rational truth-which is capable of satisfying nowadays the awakened minds of all classes. We may still say perhaps, 'faith governs the world,'-but the faith of the present is no longer in revelation or in the priest-it is in reason and in science.
The angel personifies something new arising from the deep unconscious.
The future lay before him, inevitable but invisible.
Your belief in God is merely an escape from your monotonous, stupid and cruel life.
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