It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
Alain De BottonRead
There are people who say, 'Oh this guy is quite thick.' I think the reason is that, increasingly, I don't mind being simple in terms of literary expression. Others say, 'No, no, no. He went to Cambridge. He got a good degree. He must be Einstein.'
Interpretation
The quote highlights the tension between simplicity in expression and the expectation of complexity based on one's background.
Alain De Bottonβs quote reflects the often misguided assumption that intelligence and literary merit are connected to complexity in expression. He suggests that valuing simplicity in writing can be seen as a form of authenticity, which contrasts with societal expectations that associate educational background with complexity and intellectual superiority.
In practice
In a speech about creativity, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of clear and simple communication.
It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other's smartphone.
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When analytic thought, the knife, is applied to experience, something is always killed in the process.
The Great Spirit Chief who rules above all will smile upon this land... and this time the Indian race is waiting and praying.
All other swindlers upon earth are nothing to the self-swindlers, and with such pretences did I cheat myself. Surely a curious thing. That I should innocently take a bad half-crown of somebody else's manufacture, is reasonable enough; but that I should knowingly reckon the spurious coin of my own make, as good money!
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When you're a trans woman, you are made to walk this very fine line, where if you act feminine you are accused of being a parody, but if you act masculine, it is seen as a sign of your true male identity. And if you act sweet and demure, you're accused of reinforcing patriarchal ideals of female passivity, but if you stand up for your own rights and make your voice heard, then you are dismissed as wielding male privilege and entitlement.
Very notable was his distinction between coarseness and vulgarity, coarseness, revealing something; vulgarity, concealing something.
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