I am a person who continually destroys the possibilities of a future because of the numbers of alternative viewpoints I can focus on the present.
Doris LessingRead
Do you know what people really want? Everyone, I mean. Everybody in the world is thinking: I wish there was just one other person I could really talk to, who could really understand me, who'd be kind to me. That's what people really want, if they're telling the truth.
Interpretation
What this quote means
People deeply desire genuine connection and understanding from others.
Doris Lessing's quote highlights a fundamental human need for authentic relationships. She suggests that at the core of everyone's longing is the hope for a companion who not only listens but truly comprehends and empathizes with their experiences, reflecting a universal quest for kindness and connection.
Themes
ConnectionUnderstandingKindnessRelationshipsCommunication
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about mental health, I would use this quote to emphasize the importance of connections in overcoming loneliness.
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