I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
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I think we pursue positive relationships whether or not they bring us engagement or happiness.
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What this quote means
The quote suggests that people are drawn to positive relationships regardless of the immediate emotional benefits.
Martin Seligman's quote highlights the intrinsic human desire to seek out and cultivate positive relationships in our lives. Even when these relationships do not directly lead to joy or engagement, the act of pursuing and maintaining them is a fundamental aspect of our social nature and overall well-being.
Themes
RelationshipsPositivityHappinessEngagementSocial
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Example use cases
This quote would be perfect for a speech on the importance of community.
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