Practice self-awareness, self-evaluation, and self-improvement. If we are aware that our manners - language, behavior, and actions - are measured against our values and principles, we are able to more easily embody the philosophy, leadership is a matter of how to be, not how to do.
Interpretation
Self-awareness and evaluation help us align our actions with our values, which is essential for effective leadership.
This quote emphasizes that true leadership is not just about actions or tasks but fundamentally about being a person of good character, guided by self-awareness and the principles one values. Frances Hesselbein suggests that by evaluating our manners and behavior against our personal values, we can improve ourselves and better embody the essence of effective leadership.
In practice
During a leadership training workshop, this quote can inspire participants to focus on self-awareness in their leadership roles.
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