Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
Interpretation
Start with positive reinforcement to create a supportive environment for feedback or improvement.
Dale Carnegie emphasizes the importance of beginning any interaction, especially those involving criticism or requests for change, with genuine praise and appreciation. This approach fosters goodwill and opens up the recipient to respond positively, making them more receptive to further discussion and feedback.
In practice
During a team meeting to discuss project improvements, you can open by acknowledging everyone's hard work and dedication.
When I asked him -Mr.Henry Ford- if he ever worried, he replied: "No. I believe God is managing affairs and that He doesn't need any advice from me. With God in charge, I believe that every-thing will work out for the best in the end. So what is there to worry about?
Take a chance! All life is a chance. The man who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare.
By talking to yourself about the things you have to be grateful for you can fill your mind with thoughts that soar and sing.
It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.
I can look back at my own life and see where a few words of praise have sharply changed my entire future. Can't you say the same thing about your life?
Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire.
I was not elected to produce a pile of vetoes.
Earn your leadership every day.
The ideal is to build a culture of healthy discussion, where everyone's ideas are valued. At KIND, we want everyone to be comfortable challenging my or anyone else's ideas without ever feeling or making someone else feel that the questioning is a personal attack.
Exercising leadership is an expression of your aliveness... But when you cover yourself up, you risk losing something as well. In the struggle to save yourself, you can give up too many of those qualities that are the essence of being alive, like innocence, curiosity, and compassion.
Those who govern must see how the people react to administration. Ultimately, the people are the final arbiters.
The Sherpas play a very important role in most mountaineering expeditions, and in fact many of them lead along the ridges and up to the summit.
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