QuoteProject
Here’s a question every angry man and woman needs to consider: How long are you going to allow people you don’t even like — people who are no longer in your life, maybe even people who aren’t even alive anymore — to control your life? How long?
Andy Stanley
ShareWTF𝕏

Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote encourages individuals to reflect on how external negative influences affect their lives and to regain control over their emotions.

Andy Stanley's quote emphasizes the importance of personal agency and the need to let go of anger towards those who have harmed us, whether they are still present or not. It serves as a reminder that holding onto grudges and resentment gives power to others over our emotions and actions, ultimately hindering our own happiness and peace.

Themes

AngerControlForgivenessEmotionsPersonal Growth

In practice

Example use cases

In a self-help seminar, to inspire participants to let go of past grievances.

More from Andy Stanley

Try to do for the next generation of church leaders what the previous generation of church leaders has not done for you.
Andy StanleyRead
A good coach always coaches to a leader's potential, not his current level of performance. A good leadership coach will see the potential in you and inspire you accordingly.
Andy StanleyRead
The most significant visions are not cast by great orators from a stage. They are cast at the bedsides of our children. The greatest visioncasting opportunities happen between the hours of 7:30 and 9:30 PM Monday through Sunday. In these closing hours of the day we have a unique opportunity to plant the seeds of what could be and what should be. Take every opportunity you get.
Andy StanleyRead
There is an appropriate way to use your story, not as an excuse but as a testimony to God's ability to free you from the past.
Andy StanleyRead
Leaders who refuse to listen, will eventually be surrounded by people who have nothing helpful to say
Andy StanleyRead
Leaders learn to leverage the problems that never go away in a way to create progress for the organization.
Andy StanleyRead

Similar quotes

It is loneliness that makes the loudest noise. This is true of men as of dogs.
Eric HofferRead
When I hear other people's stories, I like to believe that they contribute to my 'Encyclopedia of Human Experience.' The stories I hear help me expand my definition of what love is, what pain feels like, what sacrifice means, what laughter can do.
Sarah KayRead
I haven't been faithful to my own advice in the past. I will in the future.
Billy GrahamRead
Do more than be fair: be kind.
William Arthur WardRead
Long live impudence. It was my guardian angel in this world.
Albert EinsteinRead
Gratitude is a sign of maturity...Where there is appreciation: there is also courtesy and concern for the rights and property of others.
Gordon B. HinckleyRead

A little wisdom, now and then

Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.