What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
George Bernard ShawRead
If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance.
Interpretation
Embrace your family's flaws and challenges instead of hiding from them.
This quote by George Bernard Shaw suggests that rather than attempting to erase or conceal difficult truths or issues within a family—what he metaphorically refers to as the 'family skeleton'—one might as well accept them and find a way to cope with or even celebrate them. It highlights the idea that acknowledging imperfections can lead to a healthier relationship with one's family and oneself.
In practice
During a family reunion, you might use this quote to lighten the mood when discussing past family issues.
What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
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The world tips away when we look into our children's faces.
Dad is and always will be my living, breathing superhero.
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