Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
Society is the picnic certain individuals leave early, the party they fail to enjoy, the musical comedy they find not worth the price of admission.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on how some individuals disconnect from society, missing out on shared experiences and joys.
Joyce Carol Oates highlights the alienation felt by some individuals within society. By comparing society to a picnic, a party, and a musical comedy, she suggests that these individuals choose to leave early or find them unworthy, indicating a deeper commentary on the human experience of connection, enjoyment, and the subjective valuation of communal activities.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about social anxiety and the choice to withdraw from social situations.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
Our dreams prove that to imagine - to dream about things that have not happened - is among mankind's deepest needs.
Far off, men swell, bully, and threaten; bring them hand to hand, and they are feeble folk.
In America right now, we use words like 'smart' to talk about bombs. American rhetoric is grounded in ideas of capital-G Good, capital-E Evil, and it's very clear who is on which side. But in a book you can do just the opposite. You can use all lower-case words.
Our ancestors... purged their guilt by banishment, not death. And by so doing, they stopped that endless vicious cycle of murder and revenge.
Independence? That's middle class blasphemy. We are all dependent on one another, every soul of us on earth.
Not to think of yourself / as someone who did not count -- / Festival of the Souls.
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