Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
Society is the picnic certain individuals leave early, the party they fail to enjoy, the musical comedy they find not worth the price of admission.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on how some individuals disconnect from society, missing out on shared experiences and joys.
Joyce Carol Oates highlights the alienation felt by some individuals within society. By comparing society to a picnic, a party, and a musical comedy, she suggests that these individuals choose to leave early or find them unworthy, indicating a deeper commentary on the human experience of connection, enjoyment, and the subjective valuation of communal activities.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about social anxiety and the choice to withdraw from social situations.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
We are domesticated animals, revolving in a cage which we have built for ourselves - with its contentions, wranglings, its impossible political leaders, its gurus who exploit our self-conceit and their own with great refinement or rather crudely.
Estrangement shows itself precisely in the elimination of distance between people.
Religion is about turning untested belief into unshakable truth through the power of institutions and the passage of time.
A person who has been punished is not thereby simply less inclined to behave in a given way; at best, he learns how to avoid punishment.
Costly thy habit [dress] as thy purse can buy; But not expressed in fancy - rich, not gaudy. For the apparel oft proclaims the man.
He who only wishes and hopes does not interfere actively with the course of events and with the shaping of his own destiny.
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