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Sometimes, when I hear people without experience of addiction blame addicts for their behaviour, I feel like saying to them: 'You simply don't understand - how can a child be held responsible for doing such a dreadful thing to himself?' But then again, at other times I have to acknowledge: it was done wilfully.
Will Self
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote highlights the complexity of understanding addiction and the conflicting feelings about personal responsibility.

In this quote, Will Self addresses the common misconceptions surrounding addiction, emphasizing that those without personal experience may lack the understanding necessary to judge addicts fairly. He acknowledges the dual nature of addiction as both a compulsive behavior and a conscious choice, suggesting that empathy is crucial in discussing such a delicate issue.

Themes

AddictionUnderstandingResponsibilityEmpathyCompulsion

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Example use cases

This quote can be shared during a discussion on mental health awareness.

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