He breathed out the bitter air that makes women doubt everything, and I breathed it in, as I had always done. I expelled my dust, the powder of everything I had destroyed with doubt, and he pulled it into his lungs.
After I had my son I looked everywhere for a book that might serve as some kind of mirror. I bought so many silly books. Now I see what the problem was: I wanted a book about time-about mortality. I can't think of a writer who is at once so experimentally daring and so rigorously uncompromising as Sarah Manguso. Ongoingness is an incredibly elegant, wise book, and I loved it.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the search for meaningful reflections on life and mortality through literature, particularly after becoming a parent.
Miranda July expresses her desire for a book that reflects her experiences and thoughts on time and mortality, especially after the profound life change of becoming a parent. She recognizes a gap in available literature that addresses these complex themes, ultimately praising Sarah Manguso's 'Ongoingness' for its elegance and wisdom in tackling such significant topics, showcasing the importance of literary explorations of life’s deeper questions.
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Example use cases
In a book club discussion about the implications of parenthood and life choices.
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