One can imagine the look the two lovers exchanged; it was like a flame, for virtuous lovers have not a shred of hypocrisy.
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Squeeze marriage as much as you like, you will never extract anything from it but fun for bachelors and boredom for husbands.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Marriage can be enjoyable for those who are single, but it often leads to monotony for those who are committed.
This quote by Honore De Balzac reflects the contrasting perspectives on marriage. It suggests that while those who are not married may view marriage as a source of entertainment or pleasure, those who are married might find it to be a repetitive and dull experience. The implication is that marriage, while potentially fulfilling, can also bring challenges and a sense of routine that might not excite those who seek the thrill of independence.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsBoredomFunCommitment
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding toast, one might use this quote to humorously address the complexities of marital life.
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