I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Suppose you could be hooked up to a hypothetical 'experience machine' that, for the rest of your life, would stimulate your brain and give you any positive feelings you desire. Most people to whom I offer this imaginary choice refuse the machine. It is not just positive feelings we want: we want to be entitled to our positive feelings.
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The quote emphasizes that genuine experiences and emotions are more valuable than simply feeling good through artificial means.
In this quote, Martin Seligman presents the idea of an 'experience machine' that could provide individuals with endless positive feelings. However, he notes that most people would reject this machine, suggesting that human beings crave authentic experiences and a sense of entitlement to their feelings, rather than just the numb pleasure given by a fabricated reality. This reflects a deeper philosophical inquiry into the nature of happiness and what it means to live a fulfilling life.
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During a lecture on the nature of happiness, this quote can illustrate the importance of real experiences.
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