It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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I remember going to university, and the people who'd left home for the first time looked at the food and were horrified. Whereas, my view was that if it was vaguely edible, then it's fine.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights different perspectives on adapting to new experiences, particularly in college life.
Alain De Botton's quote reflects the contrasting attitudes of students adjusting to university life, particularly regarding food. Some individuals, who are experiencing independence for the first time, find the food unappetizing and shocking, while others, like the speaker, have a more pragmatic and accepting view, suggesting that adaptability is key when faced with new situations.
Themes
UniversityAdaptationPerspectiveFoodIndependenceExperience
In practice
Example use cases
During an orientation session to encourage students to embrace new experiences.
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