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Approved attributes and their relation to face make every man his own jailer; this is a fundamental social constraint even though each man may like his cell.
Erving Goffman
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Societal norms can restrict individual freedom, yet some may find comfort within these constraints.

In this quote, Erving Goffman emphasizes how societal expectations and approved attributes can serve as self-imposed limitations, akin to being a jailer to oneself. While these constraints may be universally applicable, individuals might also find solace and identity within their 'cells,' suggesting a complex relationship between societal norms and personal comfort.

Themes

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In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about personal growth, one might say, 'As Goffman suggests, we are all our own jailers, conditioned by society, yet we can choose to redefine our cells.'

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