And to the degree that the individual maintains a show before others that he himself does not believe, he can come to experience a special kind of alienation from self and a special kind of wariness of others.
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Any group of persons – prisoners, primitives, pilots, or patients – develop a life of their own that becomes meaningful, reasonable and normal once you get close to it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Groups create their own realities that hold significance for them based on shared experiences.
This quote by Erving Goffman highlights how different groups of people, whether in challenging circumstances like prisoners or patients, or in specific roles like pilots, develop their own understanding of life. When observed closely, their experiences and interactions create a unique culture and meaning that may seem logical and normal within that context, illustrating the power of social environments and shared experiences in shaping individual and collective perceptions of reality.
Themes
GroupMeaningSocialExperienceReality
In practice
Example use cases
In a sociology class discussing group dynamics, this quote can illustrate how shared experiences shape identity.
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