If you have the guts to be yourself, other people'll pay your price.
John UpdikeRead
Belief, like love, must be voluntary.
Interpretation
Belief should be given freely, just like love; it cannot be forced.
John Updike emphasizes the importance of voluntary consent in both belief and love. He suggests that genuine belief, akin to authentic love, cannot be coerced or compelled; it must arise freely from the individual for it to be true and meaningful.
In practice
In a discussion about relationships, one might say, 'Belief, like love, must be voluntary' to emphasize personal autonomy.
If you have the guts to be yourself, other people'll pay your price.
Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that's the stuff life is made of. _x000D_ _x000D_ Suspect each moment, for it is a thief, tiptoeing away with more than it brings.
Museums and bookstores should feel, I think, like vacant lots - places where the demands on us are our own demands, where the spirit can find exercise in unsupervised play.
But it is just two lovers, holding hands and in a hurry to reach their car, their locked hands a starfish leaping through the dark.
The reader knows the writer better than he knows himself; but the writer's physical presence is light from a star that has moved on.
To guarantee the individual maximum freedom within a social frame of minimal laws ensures - if not happiness - its hopeful pursuit.
She raised her eyes to his. They had both come from misery, she thought, and survived it. They had been drawn together through violence and tragedy, and had overcome it. They walked different paths and had found a mutual route. Some things last, she thought. Some ordinary things. Like love.
Birds do it, bees do it, even educated fleas do it; let's do it, let's fall in love.
We receive love β from our children as well as others β not in proportion to our demands or sacrifices or needs, but roughly in proportion to our own capacity to love.
As long as the "I" is there, love cannot be. All that we call love is only desire, longing, passion and attachment; as long as ego is there, all these bind one.
The cross reminds us that there is no true love without suffering, there is no gift of life without pain.
but he only found her in the image that saturated his private and terrible solitude.
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