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When we praise children for their intelligence, we tell them that this is the name of the game: Look smart; don't risk making mistakes.
Carol S. Dweck
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Praising intelligence may discourage children from taking risks and making mistakes.

Carol S. Dweck's quote emphasizes that when we label children as intelligent, we inadvertently send a message that they should prioritize looking smart over embracing challenges. This mindset promotes a fear of failure, as children may become apprehensive about making mistakes, ultimately hindering their willingness to learn and grow.

Themes

PraiseIntelligenceMistakesLearningGrowth

In practice

Example use cases

A teacher might use this quote in a workshop about effective teaching strategies.

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