Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Albert EllisRead
The emotionally mature individual should completely accept the fact that we live in a world of probability and chance, where there are not, nor probably ever will be, any absolute certainties, and should realize that it is not at all horrible, indeed—such a probabilistic, uncertain world.
Interpretation
Emotional maturity involves accepting uncertainty and unpredictability in life.
This quote by Albert Ellis emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the inherent uncertainties and probabilities of life. Instead of fearing the lack of absolute certainties, a mature individual should embrace this reality, understanding that uncertainty can lead to growth and adaptability rather than despair.
In practice
During a motivational speech about embracing life's uncertainties.
Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Religious creeds encourage some of the craziest kinds of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors and favor severe manifestations of neurosis, borderline personality states, and sometimes even psychosis.
I had used eclectic therapy and behavior therapy on myself at the age of 19 to get over my fear of public speaking and of approaching young women in public.
If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally - about anything. Yes, anything.
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
Attempts to help humans eliminate all self-ratings and views self-esteem as a self-defeating concept that encourages them to make conditional evaluations of self. Instead, it teaches people unconditional self-acceptance.
The Sufi way is through knowledge and practice, not through intellect and talk.
There is no royal road to anything. One thing at a time, all things in succession. That which grows fast, withers as rapidly. That which grows slowly, endures.
Whilst we deliberate how to begin a thing, it grows too late to begin it.
I believe that anyone who claims to know what's going on will lie about the little things too.
I can focus on writing, or I can get lost in wonderfully fun but endless conversations and produce nothing new at all. I count on those people who enjoy my work to understand this.
Every man is eloquent once in his life.
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