The hardest part of living without social media was remembering that my little life was enough, so I could just stay there and live it without asking for anyone else's permission or validation. I realized that for me, posting is like asking the world, 'Do you 'like' me?'
We are - each and every one of us - unlearning misogyny. It's going to take some time. But be aware and active of your prejudices. Notice when they kick in and resist. Fight to stay soft and open. Step back and squint hard.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the ongoing process of unlearning societal biases, particularly misogyny, and encourages self-awareness and resistance against ingrained prejudices.
Glennon Doyle Melton's quote encapsulates the journey of individuals learning to recognize and unlearn misogynistic attitudes that they may have absorbed from society. It highlights the necessity for active awareness and resistance to these prejudices while advocating for an open and empathetic mindset. The reminder that this process takes time serves to reinforce the importance of patience and perseverance in fostering personal growth and change.
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Example use cases
This quote could be shared during a workshop on gender equality and awareness against biases.
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