We are - each and every one of us - unlearning misogyny. It's going to take some time. But be aware and active of your prejudices. Notice when they kick in and resist. Fight to stay soft and open. Step back and squint hard.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the ongoing process of unlearning societal biases, particularly misogyny, and encourages self-awareness and resistance against ingrained prejudices.
Glennon Doyle Melton's quote encapsulates the journey of individuals learning to recognize and unlearn misogynistic attitudes that they may have absorbed from society. It highlights the necessity for active awareness and resistance to these prejudices while advocating for an open and empathetic mindset. The reminder that this process takes time serves to reinforce the importance of patience and perseverance in fostering personal growth and change.
In practice
This quote could be shared during a workshop on gender equality and awareness against biases.
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Unless we share with each other we gotta start makin' changes
The white man is very clever. He came quietly and peaceably with his religion. We were amused at his foolishness and allowed him to stay. Now he has won our brothers, and our clan can no longer act like one. He has put a knife on the things that held us together and we have fallen apart.
I'm not sure I'm trying to communicate a message. I'm just trying to be part of the movement away from the unacceptable present.
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