A safe life includes following your dreams with the full knowledge that doing so is not, in any way, shape or form, safe in the traditional meaning of the word. Because living safely means dying without too many regrets. That is safe.
Interpretation
Safety in life often comes from avoiding risks, but pursuing dreams is essential for a fulfilling existence.
Glennon Doyle Melton emphasizes that living a 'safe' life, as commonly understood, often leads to a lack of fulfillment and a multitude of regrets. True safety lies in the courage to pursue one's dreams, despite the inherent risks involved, as this encourages a life rich with experiences and personal growth.
In practice
This quote could be used in a motivational speech to encourage individuals to chase their passions.
The hardest part of living without social media was remembering that my little life was enough, so I could just stay there and live it without asking for anyone else's permission or validation. I realized that for me, posting is like asking the world, 'Do you 'like' me?'
I think that in order to parent effectively, we are going to have to admit two things: We can't keep our children safe. We can't accept the fact that we can't keep our children safe.
Sometimes the rewards of risk don't leave us wrecked. Sometimes we find our passion, our purpose, courage, connection, and comfort. Every good thing in our lives is a direct result of risk.
One of the reasons we stay so alone in our lives is because we're ashamed to talk about the hard stuff. It's as simple as that. We're all in pain in different ways, and we don't get the help we need because we're too ashamed to talk about the pain.
We are - each and every one of us - unlearning misogyny. It's going to take some time. But be aware and active of your prejudices. Notice when they kick in and resist. Fight to stay soft and open. Step back and squint hard.
Integrity means there is not a real-life you and an internet you. The two are one and the same. If you're not kind on the Internet, you're not kind.
Lente, lente currite, noctis equi. Translation: Run slowly, slowly, horses of the night.
Most of the people who came for dancing lessons had Rumba ambitions and minuet bodies
You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories.
Things have changed, ofcourse. There are counsellors at the ready. Kindness and understanding. Life is harder for some, we're told. Not their fault, even if the blows are purely imgainery. Felt just as keenly by the recipient, or the non recipient, as the case may be. But good use can be made of everything, if you are willing.
I know now that we never get over great losses; we absorb them, and they carve us into different, often kinder, creatures.
Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor.
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