I think that in order to parent effectively, we are going to have to admit two things: We can't keep our children safe. We can't accept the fact that we can't keep our children safe.
The hardest part of living without social media was remembering that my little life was enough, so I could just stay there and live it without asking for anyone else's permission or validation. I realized that for me, posting is like asking the world, 'Do you 'like' me?'
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and living authentically without the need for external validation.
In this quote, Glennon Doyle Melton reflects on the challenges of living without the influence of social media. She highlights how it forced her to recognize the inherent value of her own life without seeking approval from others. The act of posting on social media is likened to a plea for validation, indicating a struggle between personal fulfillment and external affirmation. Ultimately, she discovers that her life is sufficient and meaningful on its own, without requiring likes or approval from the world.
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In a speech about self-esteem, I might say: 'As Glennon Doyle Melton said, the hardest part of living without social media is realizing your life is enough.'
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One of the reasons we stay so alone in our lives is because we're ashamed to talk about the hard stuff. It's as simple as that. We're all in pain in different ways, and we don't get the help we need because we're too ashamed to talk about the pain.
A safe life includes following your dreams with the full knowledge that doing so is not, in any way, shape or form, safe in the traditional meaning of the word. Because living safely means dying without too many regrets. That is safe.
We are - each and every one of us - unlearning misogyny. It's going to take some time. But be aware and active of your prejudices. Notice when they kick in and resist. Fight to stay soft and open. Step back and squint hard.
Integrity means there is not a real-life you and an internet you. The two are one and the same. If you're not kind on the Internet, you're not kind.
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