I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Martin SeligmanRead
I think you can be depressed and flourish, I think you can have cancer and flourish, I think you can be divorced and flourish. When we believed that happiness was only smiling and good mood, that wasn't very good for people like me, people in the lower half of positive affectivity.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Flourishing is possible even in the face of adversity and negative emotions.
This quote by Martin Seligman emphasizes that one can still lead a fulfilling and enriching life despite experiencing challenges such as depression, illness, or divorce. It highlights the misconception that true happiness is solely defined by constant positivity, suggesting instead that genuine well-being can coexist with difficult emotions and experiences.
Themes
FlourishHappinessAdversityWell-BeingPositiveLife
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational talk about overcoming life challenges, one might quote this to inspire hope.
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