Christianity remains to this day the greatest misfortune of humanity.
The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: he wills. 'Behold , just now the world ... entire love. And woman must obey and find a depth for her surface. Surface is the disposition of woman: a mobile, stormy film over shallow water. Man's disposition, however, is deep; his river roars in subterranean caves: woman feels his strength but does not comprehend it.
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What this quote means
The quote explores the different ways men and women experience happiness and love, highlighting a contrast between their dispositions and emotional depths.
In this quote, Nietzsche reflects on the nature of happiness in men and women, suggesting a dichotomy where men find fulfillment in their willpower while women find theirs in their partner's desires. He describes women's emotional experiences as surface-level, often turbulent, while portraying men as having a deeper, more powerful emotional core that women can sense but may not fully understand. This distinction comments on broader themes of gender dynamics and the complexities of love and relationships.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a discussion about gender roles in modern relationships.
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Watch them clamber, these swift monkeys! They clamber over one another and thus drag one another into the mud and the depth. They all want to get to the throne: that is their madness β as if happiness sat on the throne. Often, mud sits on the throne β and often the throne also on mud. Mad they all appear to me, clambering monkeys and overardent. Foul smells their idol, the cold monster: foul, they smell to me altogether, these idolators.
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