Before I was ever a poet, my father was writing poems about me, so it was a turning of the tables when I became a poet and started answering, speaking back to his poems in ways that I had not before.
I think that it's hard enough being an adolescent and wanting so much to fit in with your peers, your schoolmates, and to erase any sign of difference, to be part of the group. And being biracial but also being black in a predominately white school marked me as different.
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What this quote means
Navigating adolescence is challenging, especially for those who feel different due to their identity.
In this quote, Natasha Trethewey reflects on the struggles of adolescence, particularly the desire to fit in with peers while grappling with personal identity, specifically as a biracial individual in a predominantly white school. She highlights the inherent challenges faced by young people who feel marked as different, illustrating how such differences can significantly impact their experiences and sense of belonging during formative years.
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In a speech about diversity and inclusion, one might reference this quote to highlight the importance of embracing individuality.
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'Memory.' 'Race.' 'Murder.' That's what they say about me. I am an elegiac poet. I have some historical questions, and I'm grappling with ways to make sense of history; why it still haunts us in our most intimate relationships with each other, but also in our political decisions.
For a long time, I've been interested in cultural memory and historical erasure.
Often as a poet I find that I am somewhat outside an experience I want to hold onto, consciously taking mental notes or writing them down in my journal - for fear that I will forget. It's not unlike being on a trip and taking pictures, your face behind a camera the whole time - the entire experience mediated by a lens.
People always want to be on the right side of history; it is a lot easier to say, 'What an atrocity that was' then it is to say, 'What an atrocity this is.'
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