Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Albert EllisRead
By honestly acknowledging your past errors, but never damning yourself for them, you can learn to use your past for your own future benefit.
Interpretation
Embracing past mistakes without self-judgment allows for personal growth and future improvement.
This quote emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our past mistakes without self-condemnation. By understanding and accepting our errors, we can transform them into valuable lessons that contribute to our personal development and future success, rather than allowing guilt to hinder our progress.
In practice
In a motivational speech about resilience and overcoming obstacles, you might use this quote to inspire others to learn from their past.
Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Religious creeds encourage some of the craziest kinds of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors and favor severe manifestations of neurosis, borderline personality states, and sometimes even psychosis.
I had used eclectic therapy and behavior therapy on myself at the age of 19 to get over my fear of public speaking and of approaching young women in public.
If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally - about anything. Yes, anything.
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
Attempts to help humans eliminate all self-ratings and views self-esteem as a self-defeating concept that encourages them to make conditional evaluations of self. Instead, it teaches people unconditional self-acceptance.
Pour some water into a tub and stir it up. Now try as hard as you can to calm the water with your hands; you will succeed in agitating it further. Let it stand undisturbed a while, and it will calm down by itself. The human brain works much the same way.
Great advantage is drawn from knowledge of your adversary, and when you know the measure of his intelligence and character, you can use it to play on his weakness.
If I experiment enough, I get a deeper understanding.
Remember: no attachment should grow, no clinging should grow. They are all against your independence, your freedom, your individuality.
I will be patient till even patience tires of my patience.
While we are making up our minds as to when we shall begin, the opportunity is lost.
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