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I'm not one of those writers who insist they don't read reviews and don't care much about them. I do read them, and I do care about them, and they're not always what you want them to be in an ideal world.
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What this quote means
Writers often do care about reviews, despite claiming otherwise, and those reviews can be unexpectedly critical.
In this quote, Tom Stoppard expresses the common struggle among writers regarding the opinion of critics and readers. He acknowledges that while many writers may proclaim indifference towards reviews, the truth is that they are deeply affected by them, especially when feedback diverges from their expectations. The candidness in his admission highlights the inherent vulnerability of creatives who seek validation in their work, emphasizing that acceptance of critique is part of the artistic journey.
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In a panel discussion about the impact of reviews on writers' mental health.
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