Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
I've wrecked and ravaged half my life in the pursuit of women, and I suffer the pangs of about seventeen regrets -- the seventeen who got away.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the regrets one may have in love and relationships, highlighting the emotional turmoil caused by past choices.
Edward Abbey's quote poignantly captures the idea of regret associated with romantic pursuits. It suggests that a significant portion of one's life may be spent in the chase for love, leading to a sense of loss or pain over missed opportunities. The number 'seventeen' signifies not just the quantity of relationships, but rather the depth of emotional impact each one had on the speaker, conveying a universal truth about the complexities of love and the haunting nature of what could have been.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a reflective speech at a wedding, one might quote Abbey to emphasize the importance of appreciating love before it slips away.
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I believe in nothing that I cannot touch, kiss, embrace.... The rest is only hearsay.
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