Don't we forgive everything of a lover? We forgive selfishness, desire, guile. As long as we are the motive for it...There are some European words you can never translate properly into another language.
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A man in a desert can hold absence in his cupped hands, knowing it is something that feeds him more than water.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the profound value of absence and longing over physical sustenance.
In this quote, Michael Ondaatje illustrates the idea that the experience of absence can be more nourishing to the human spirit than even the necessities of life, such as water. The metaphor of a man in a desert highlights how, in times of scarcity, the emotional and existential dimensions of life can provide deeper fulfillment and meaning than mere physical survival, suggesting that what we miss and long for can shape our identity and enrich our existence.
Themes
AbsenceLongingDesertDepthNourishment
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about embracing hardships.
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