Don't we forgive everything of a lover? We forgive selfishness, desire, guile. As long as we are the motive for it...There are some European words you can never translate properly into another language.
Michael OndaatjeRead
When we are young we do not look into mirrors. It is when we are old, concerned with our name, our legend, what our lives will mean to the future. We become vain with the names we own, our claims to have been the first eyes, the strongest army, the cleverest merchant. It is when he is old that Narcissus wants a graven image of himself.
Interpretation
As we age, we become increasingly concerned with our legacy and how we are perceived by others.
Michael Ondaatje's quote reflects on the human tendency to care about our identity and legacy as we grow older. In youth, we often live in the moment and do not scrutinize our reflections, but as we age, we become preoccupied with how we will be remembered and how our accomplishments define us, leading to an obsession with reputation, pride, and self-image, akin to Narcissus's need for recognition.
In practice
In a discussion on personal growth, this quote can emphasize the importance of understanding our past to shape our future.
Don't we forgive everything of a lover? We forgive selfishness, desire, guile. As long as we are the motive for it...There are some European words you can never translate properly into another language.
Water is the exile, carried back in cans and flasks, the ghost between your hands and your mouth.
You must talk to me, Caravaggio. Or am I just a book? Something to be read, some creature to be tempted out of a loch and shot full of morphine, full of corridors, lies, loose vegetation, pockets of stones.
You don't want to write your own opinion, you don't want to just represent yourself, but represent yourself through someone else.
A man in a desert can hold absence in his cupped hands, knowing it is something that feeds him more than water.
I have spent weeks in the desert, forgetting to look at the moon, he says, as a married man may spend days never looking into the face of his wife. These are not sins of omission but signs of pre-occuopation.
Every fairy tale had a bloody lining. Every one had teeth and claws.
The strong are strengthened by reverses; the trouble is that the true meaning of events scores next to nothing in the match we play with men. Appearances decide our gains or losses and the points are trumpery. And a mere semblance of defeat may hopelessly checkmate us.
If we esteem them too highly, good works can become the greatest idolatry.
I love tranquil solitude_x000D_ _x000D_ And such society_x000D_ _x000D_ As is quiet, wise, and good.
The chief danger about Paris is that it is such a strong stimulant.
The whole Turkish empire is nothing else but a crust cast by Heaven's great Housekeeper to His dogs.
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