Whatever you think someone else should give to you, you need to be able to give yourself first.
Jay ShettyRead
When I became a monk, it didn't feel like I was giving up that much. I actually felt like I had made the best decision, because anyone who hadn't focused on building themselves up was the one losing out.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the benefits of personal growth over material pursuits.
Jay Shetty reflects on his decision to become a monk, suggesting that rather than losing something valuable, he gained a deeper sense of fulfillment. He argues that focusing on self-improvement and personal development is a rewarding choice, and that those who neglect this aspect of life are the ones truly losing out.
In practice
In a motivational speech about self-discovery, I would share this quote to illustrate the importance of inner growth.
Whatever you think someone else should give to you, you need to be able to give yourself first.
Expectations are not based on reality. They are observations, expected realities, or beliefs of what you think will happen. Expectations of others stop us from acting as our highest selves and reaching our full potential.
We think we have to become something else to be satisfied, not realizing that being ourselves is the only thing that can satisfy us.
I see my whole 20s as a massive experiment. So were my teens. I think the problem is that we're not encouraged to experiment; we're encouraged to decide and choose, be singular and focused. You can't be that until you experiment. You don't know what's going to work until you try it.
If we don't choose to intentionally and consciously slow down and stop being in a rush, your body and mind will force you to do it anyway.
Real love is figuring out how someone wants to be loved and loving them in that way.
It is in life as it is in ways, the shortest way is commonly the foulest, and surely the fairer way is not much about.
I dream a dream that dreams back at me.
Pre-emptive war might fall within the framework of international law.
During most of my life, my contact with Jews and Judaism was slight. I gave little thought to their problems, save in asking myself, from time to time, whether we were showing by our lives due appreciation of the opportunities which this hospitable country affords. My approach to Zionism was through Americanism.
One country ... one ideology, one system is not sufficient. It is helpful to have a variety of different approaches ... We can then make a joint effort to solve the problems of the whole of humankind.
The peoples of the Andes believe in the concept of 'living well' instead of wanting to 'live better' by consuming more, regardless of the cost to our neighbors and our environment.
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