Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Albert EllisRead
By not caring too much about what people think, I'm able to think for myself and propagate ideas which are very often unpopular. And I succeed.
Interpretation
Valuing one's own thoughts over public opinion leads to original and often successful ideas.
This quote emphasizes the importance of individuality and the strength that comes from not being overly concerned with others' opinions. Albert Ellis suggests that by freeing oneself from societal expectations and judgments, one can explore unconventional ideas and ultimately achieve success rooted in authenticity.
In practice
In a motivational speech about embracing individuality.
Eating is always a decision, nobody forces your hand to pick up food and put it into your mouth.
Religious creeds encourage some of the craziest kinds of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors and favor severe manifestations of neurosis, borderline personality states, and sometimes even psychosis.
I had used eclectic therapy and behavior therapy on myself at the age of 19 to get over my fear of public speaking and of approaching young women in public.
If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally - about anything. Yes, anything.
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
Attempts to help humans eliminate all self-ratings and views self-esteem as a self-defeating concept that encourages them to make conditional evaluations of self. Instead, it teaches people unconditional self-acceptance.
A cup is useful only when it is empty; and a mind that is filled with beliefs, with dogmas, with assertions, with quotations is really an uncreative mind.
The fool wonders, the wise man asks.
The persecution of genius fosters its influence.
Truth is the beginning of every good thing, both in heaven and_x000D_ _x000D_ on earth; and he who would be blessed and happy should be from_x000D_ _x000D_ the first a partaker of truth, for then he can be trusted.
I teach people that no matter what the situation is, no matter how chaotic, no matter how much drama is around you, you can heal by your presence if you just stay within your center.
Old father, old artificer, stand me now and ever in good stead.
Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.